Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Fwd: [KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES] Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are

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Date: Tue, Jun 22, 2010 at 11:44 AM
Subject: [KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES] Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are
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With Academy and Girls camp constantly on my mind for the past month, it's been hard for me to get anywhere near the blog, but they are now both over and I feel like summer can officially begin, if the weather would ever cooperate, and the sun would stop playing hide and seek.  What is this, Seattle?

Leadership Academy was wonderful (and like Mikayla described it, spiritually exhausting).  In 24 hours the girls listened to 11 talks, 11 special musical numbers, participated in a solo experience, a missionary service project and a testimony meeting. Over half of the talks and all of the musical numbers were prepared by young women.  The depth and scope was amazing.  I never cease to be surprised by the spiritual maturity of many of our youth.  We had 48 y.w. (16-18) attending, and because of the manageable numbers, the older ages and the spiritual atmosphere, we had no problems.

Girls camp, which followed right on the heels of Academy was more fraught with administrative headaches (we had 195 young women 12-17).  There were pranks, homesickness, emotional issues, illness, and freezing cold temperatures to keep us busy.  We also had a group of over 100 hikers (including Mikayla and Eden) lost for a few scary hours.  They left at 9:00 a.m. for what was supposed to be a 5 mile hike.  Because they were certifying on the trail and because the group was so large and varied in their physical abilities, those leaders who were back at camp weren't worried when the group didn't show up for lunch.  We had walkie talkie's in camp, but were not aware that any of the leaders had taken one on the hike, so had turned all of ours off during free time for the girls.  At 1:30 the stake Y.W. president turned hers on in anticipation of climbing up to help with the repelling group.  Literally 3 seconds later, we heard a voice say, "we are definitely lost!".  We later found out that though the group had been lost for two hours, that was the very first attempt at contacting us, as the leader had forgotten that her walkie talkie was in her bag, and only remembered after the group had said a prayer.  Apparently they had wandered off the path to hike on a road, but when the road dead-ended, they weren't able to relocate the trail.  They were hiking in a burn area and the temperatures had grown warm and with no shade they had all run out of water early.  We got the message up to the repelling group and one of the men who were helping took a walkie talkie and started hiking to the highest point he could find and told the group to do the same.  I asked the camp leader to gather as many girls as she could and say a prayer and then two other stake leaders and I, jumped into a car and headed to a neighbor cabin in search of a good map and familiarity with the area.  We acquired a bull horn and directions to logging roads and suggestions to go talk to the forest service, but within 10 minutes, as we were driving away from the neighbors home, we heard the message that the group was able to hear the man who had hiked up yelling and minutes later were able to get a visual.  However, the group was so far away, it was another hour and a half before we got the last hiker back into camp.  The group was exhausted, dehydrated, sore from holding their arms over their heads through poison oak and walking for what we figured was close to 12 miles, but not one of them was "beat".  We all knew that their rescue had been a direct answer to prayers.  That evening, which was Bishops Night, we were privelaged to have Elder Gary Walker (our area authority) visit and speak.  He shared some intimately personal experiences with the first presidency and the quorum of the twelve and explained some of the processes of how callings and inspiration come.  He was very careful about what he said, but left us with no doubt that those 15 men all have interactions and relationships that are more personal than we may sometimes think, with  the Godhead.  It was a unique and beautiful opportunity that only some recognized for what it was. Afterward, every testimony from our ward, included spiritual lessons learned from the hike incident, so the day ended on a positive note.  All in all, I think the majority of the y.w. came back from camp with strengthened testimonies, and stronger relationships with each other and with us, which was the goal.  That part of girls camp, I love. I do not want to go camping again for another year; that part I don't love.  But, we'll see what I have to sacrifice this summer to please my family :)

Mikayla and Eden are wanting to start a Mother/Daughter book club this summer.  We are having a little bit of trouble coming up with a list because we all want to read new books and the ones I want them to read, I've already read and the ones they want me to read, they've already read.  Right now we are all immersed separately in Jane Austen and  Charles Dickens but I'm sure we'll come up with something brilliant to read together. Summer reading is my absolutely most anticipated activity during the break.  I'm just waiting for the sun to come out permanently so we can schedule some hammock time:)

Celebrating Fred's 43rd Birthday!













Kindergarten Graduation
















Last day of school with Eden's friends; all wearing their artistic shirt creations



























Superman:  Up, up and away!













GIRLS CAMP:
Service Project













Lites vs. Leaders football game









































Lily and Sophie playing in one of our many rainstorms;
It filled the common area in minutes







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Posted By Bloomers to KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES at 6/22/2010 11:44:00 AM

Monday, June 21, 2010

Fwd: [KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES] Life Goes On

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Date: Mon, Apr 26, 2010 at 8:17 AM
Subject: [KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES] Life Goes On
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Eden was called Tuesday night and asked to give a talk on Optimism in Sacrament mtg. yesterday.  We all forgot until we walked into the chapel yesterday and opened the program; it was 15 minutes before the mtg.  You can imagine the reaction of a very vocal, stressed out 14 year old.  I rushed her out to the car, grabbed Jordan and Mikayla and told them it was "missionary prep time".  Jordan had a scripture mastery immediatley that fit the topic,  Mikayla found 2 more within minutes and gave her insight on "bridging the gap".  Eden was prepared with a personal experience because she had thought of it earlier in the week.  I encouraged her to bear her testimony to sum it all up and 5 minutes before the meeting we got out of the car and Eden went into an empty classroom to pray and was on the stand before the meeting started.  She did a beautiful job of bringing the Spirit and sharing a message from the heart and even tied in the pre-talk experience with her topic.  I was so proud of her.

Fred made "healthy" cookies yesterday evening.  He has been going through some "treat" withdrawls as our family has been trying to be supportive of Jordan and Mikayla's goal to go without sugar.  He or Jordan traditionally make chocolate chip cookies on Sunday evening, but these were more like unsweetened muffins, not altogether bad, but not that enticing either.  This supportive exercise has really made it apparent how often we eat treats, and I have always considered us to be healthy eaters.  We are becoming much more aware and are starting to become fastidious label readers.  Jordan and Mikayla have been amazingly self disciplined with their goal.  Jordan will be finished at the end of April, but Mikayla continues on with the Middleton Health challenge for 6 more weeks.  She has accomplished 100% of the goals so far and already reached her 6 mile running goal and beyond.  She has set a new goal for 8 miles, but is having some pain in her knees, so is doing other exercises for a little while.  She says the hardest part of the whole challenge is drinking all of the water.  She is drinking 80+ oz. every day, but a few times had to stay up late to get it all down.  I'm not being as conscientious, but so far I haven't made it through more than 50 ounces.

Jordan's last day working at Cookies and Cream was Saturday.  I guess things didn't work out with the man that was looking into buying the store, but Jordan was really enjoying his enthusiasm and looking forward to going to work.  He was sad to give up the anticipation of something fun and exciting.  We're all sad that it didn't work out for Chris and Lori.  It is back to looking for more part time work for Jordan. All of these experiences of continually having to take initiative in order to move forward are good for him and will hopefully help him to continually set new goals and readjust to circumstances around him in positive ways.  I know the Lord fits our challenges for our individual needs and life goes on.

Fred was released from his calling as the Scout Advancement leader and asked to be the scout leader as well as the Sunday school teacher of the 11 year old boys. He has 3 boys on Sunday, one during the activities. Had it not seemed inappropriate to celebrate a "release", we would have had a huge party, but he is relieved.  It has been some long, arduous years in that position, but we are grateful he was there while Jordan was working on his scouting requirements or the whole process would have seemed quite overwhelming.

Eden is deeply immersed in "Song of Years" and is quickly approaching the part where most of my family has dug in there heels and refused to go on.  We called her out of her room Friday evening for prayers and she emerged quite agitated, with the book in her hand saying, "no one in this book is doing what they are supposed to do!"  Then last night she came down for scriptures, book in hand, and when Fred asked her how it was going, she said, with starry eyes, "everything is better now".  I asked where she was and was not surprised to here her say that "the train just stopped".  Fred and Mikayla and I are just waiting now.........waiting..........waiting.  Will I have to convince her to continue like I had to convince Fred and Mikayla, who both closed the book for day,s or will she go on quietly, locked in her room or will we hear "wailing and gnashing of teeth?"  I am interested.......and waiting.

I am just trying to stay above water as we prepare for the busy season in Y.W. and plan for leadership trainings and Girls Camp.  It is a challenge trying to balance my responsibilities at home and the seemingly never ending war with dirt and chaos and the constant spiritual preparation that seems necessary.  I guess in the end it all comes down to the battle between temporal and spiritual, but some days I'm not sure that either side is winning.

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Fwd: [KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES] Close to the Surface

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It's a beautiful thing when Easter and General Conference weekend converge.  I loved it.  We celebrated the fun spring traditions associated with Easter between sessions on Saturday and not even the cool weather could stop us from basking in the warmth of the Spirit on Sunday.  I have been battling a nasty cold for the last few days, and feeling ill always seems to amplify all of my emotions, but they were very close to the surface this weekend as personal inspiration and answers to prayers came more quickly than I could record them.  It was a most amazing outpouring of illumination from every speaker.  I am almost sad to transition from those intense feelings and guidance to the actions that make them meaningful; that attitude reflects my weaknesses, but I'm afraid it's accurate.  Being inspired is a high.  Following through is hard.


I am trying to gear up emotionally for a very stressful and intense week for Mikayla.  She was asked 2 -1/2 weeks ago (not by me) if she would accompany a soloist for the stake Y.W. Recognition night.  It was a very difficult piece of music and she has never played anything in public or accompanied anyone, even at home, but she surprised and amazed me by accepting the challenge.  She has been diligent and dedicated to practicing and has made incredible strides, but this week she will have to start practicing with the soloist and that demands a whole other level of confidence and achievement.  This weekend is the first time I have sensed apprehension and my mother protective reflexes are shooting off the charts.  She was also asked to Prom on Saturday which has her very excited but has also added a new dimension of stress.  We went to town during the Priesthood session of conference and could only find dresses "cut down to here" or "cut up to there".  I know we will be able to find something we can make work, even if it means a major revision job for me, but it will take time that she was planning on using for piano practice, so she is starting to feel the pressure.  I have confidence in her abilities and faith in her determination, and we have both been asking for divine help, but like she told me the other night, "I have to do my part" and I know that is also true.


Jordan's friend found a job possibility for Jordan doing laundry at a rest home where his mother is a nurse.  It is only a part time position and we don't yet know if the job description includes Sundays but he is applying while he finds out those details.  It is a humbling, distasteful job and I am proud of him for not even wavering before looking into it.  It lets me know that he is willing to do hard things.  Even so, there are other applicants for even this job.  The competition extends to even the most lowly of professions here.


Everyone in the family is acclimating to "Unplugged" quite nicely with the exception of Eden.  She is vocally resisting, but that isn't surprising as Eden is vocal in all the facets of her life :)  It is actually quite comforting as we always know exactly where she stands on every issue.  I'm sure she will mellow as the month wears on and the withdrawal becomes more comfortable.  Really the only things we have deleted are the radio, weekend movies and evening extracurricular computer time (which was quite limited anyway).  We all check our e-mail in the morning and Fred and the children use the computer for necessary homework.  Of course we watched conference and we did open the opportunity for writing on the blogs on Sunday.  I do YW responsibilities and budgeting and the blog once a week during the day, but in the evening we are trying to focus on old fashioned family time and it is a good thing, though to some degree we all feel the impact of some of "entertainment" loss.


Well time to put notes into action.


Jordan's 19th Birthday
















Licking the candles
















Flying


The mice will play while the cat is away:
"Modeling" sessions with the air compressor in the garage

























Getting in on the act 'sans' the air compressor






"Little Purple Pansies"


A Family Egg Hunt





























Steaming Eggs


Colored Eggs
















Easter Lunch




















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Posted By Bloomers to KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES at 4/05/2010 12:54:00 PM

Monday, May 10, 2010

Go Carts, Stick Horses and Concerts

Fred and Abe's scout goal go cart













Kindergarten Rodeo







































Young Artists Spring Concert






























































































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Posted By Bloomers to KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES at 5/04/2010 11:38:00 AM

Monday, April 5, 2010

Happy Spring?

 I am becoming seriously Vitamin D deficient; Easter is this Sunday and it's snowing!   Egg hunts are threatening to be indoors on Saturday and I am threatening to fly south.  I need sun and heat and soft dirt and so far, we're 0 for 3.

Yesterday was the beginning of "Middleton Unplugged".  During the day, we all use the technology that we need to do our "work", but nothing for entertainment purposes and when the family comes back together in the evening, everything goes off that isn't homework related.  It has been nice and quiet and BEAUTIFUL.  No radios, no computer games.   Aaaahhh!  Some of my older children don't revel in it like I do, but it is good for all of us to get back to good, old fashioned pondering time.

Middleton is celebrating it's 100's anniversary this month and there are a lot of community events planned.  It's a good opportunity to mingle and get to know our neighbors better.  They have asked for short essays about what Middleton means to us, to be included in a book that will go in a time capsule.  I have taken the challenge, though I am finding it difficult to contain my feelings in 700 words or less.  Fred, Mikayla and Eden are helping me and it has been therapeutic.

I am looking so forward to General Conference this weekend and all of the good, uplifting family time that creates.  The General Y.W. broadcast last Saturday was AMAZING and wet my appetite for that spiritual enlightenment that seems to just breath renewal of motivation and hope and the active desire to keep fighting the good fight.  It is so perfect when it happens to fall on Easter.  I love that.

Mom and Dad's homecoming was so enjoyable.  It is good to gather as family and have the opportunity just to visit.  Jordan, Mikayla and Eden got help from some of the cousins and made a cute video for the occasion, which Mikayla is trying to post on Cousin Connection.  It really turned out quite cute, though they had some technical difficulties with the sound.  They are truly nuts!!!

Glad to have you back home, Mom and Dad!